Hi everyone I am new on this site I need help

[sthokos]

I need help, I am about to marry the love of my life but, he is sotho and I am zulu and engagement date has been set and the whole family will be there. I can't speak sotho or tswan, and I am can't even hear what they are saying. As a result I have to drag him along with me, so that he will interpret everything for me.

I need someone to assist to learn their language quickly.

regards

[ches]

Originally Posted by sthokos

I need help, I am about to marry the love of my life but, he is sotho and I am zulu and engagement date has been set and the whole family will be there. I can't speak sotho or tswan, and I am can't even hear what they are saying. As a result I have to drag him along with me, so that he will interpret everything for me.

I need someone to assist to learn their language quickly.

regards

Congratulations!

Why don't you ask your fiancé to help you? Also, do you not have another language in common, such as English? Will they not show the bride enough respect to speak in front of her in a language she understands?

I hope that you enjoy your day and that you find a way to communicate.

[kiwi_girl]

wow...ummmm...I dont really understand any of that?!

[koos]

Originally Posted by sthokos

I need help, I am about to marry the love of my life but, he is sotho and I am zulu and engagement date has been set and the whole family will be there. I can't speak sotho or tswan, and I am can't even hear what they are saying. As a result I have to drag him along with me, so that he will interpret everything for me.

I need someone to assist to learn their language quickly.

regards

I would say it is wrong to get married.You are going to have many problems in the future.Which language are you going to use in your house?Your children,are they going to br Zulu or Sotho.All I can tell you that it is not going to work in a marriage