Yes I totally agree with you that we should all accept eachother, but facts are that people don't.
And if you practise what you preach, then you should accept anyone who says anything bad about anything, cos you just said that.
I have never in my life said anything untruthful about Mr Mandela, I have always said that he has done great things for SA. Don't you go bringing up that "he's black and old" (-your words) cos colour and age has nothing to do with it. He's a public figure, and if you look back over the years, people all over the world in the public eye have been portrayed in situations they have never been in or never will be in.
Here's your contridiction:
"But lets think: The new South Africa: people accept each other. people live life for all. 'all ofr one and one for all'"
So if you were to live by your own words, then you should accept people, good or bad, white or black, people who say good things and people who say bad things.
The future has happened, just not yet.